I look over at him all the time, mostly when I know there is no chance of him catching me. When I'm in the car with him and it's just us, I bask in the fact that he will always be there. It's not that I take him and his presence for granted, it's that I know he's not looking to find an exit to turn off on. Though I am a piece of work a majority of the time, his humor and his sense of truth go so far beyond any snip or any blurt of frustration.